This is 100% your fault Aiden, just because something like stealing is allowed doesn't mean that it's okay if you break another rule in the process of stealing. Most Minecraft servers also have the No Griefing rule, I don't know what goes through your head that makes you think that destroying someone else's hard work is acceptable in any way. Also, the fact that someone trusted you and you betrayed them only makes it worse, and you should be ashamed.