So Skye, we should just allow members to offend us by saying such things? What is a ban in the first place? Did he not break this rule?
1. Play Nice
Respect other players and their creations. Give them the same curiosities that you yourself want. We all are playing for fun, let's keep it that way!
That doesn't mean make up an excuse to be offended. I'm aware of what the term means and the situation at hand, it was quite disrespectful, and a 3 hour ban was enough to explain how SGT felt about what happened.